What about Joe Blogs?
They interviewed Jo Cox's husband and asked him how he was coping with his wife's death, it was unfortunate.
What about Joe Blogs when he loses family and his wife dies in his arms, who asks how he is coping, no-one? The problem is one is in the public eye and the other is not and sometimes he cannot cope.
If people would only stop a few seconds to remind Joe Blogs he and his child are important should they need help. People do not like to talk about death even when it has happened so please spare a thought for Joe Blogs, he may need guidance too.