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Published Date:
10 January 2008
A CROSS-dressing Sheffield factory worker's family found out he had a secret double life as a transvestite when he turned up at his own wedding reception - wearing a bride's dress.
Dean Dudley, aged 35, from Barnsley, had never even told his mum until the day he tied the knot that he loves wearing women's clothes, high heels and make-up on nights out with his wife.

And he kept his alter-ego, "Deanne", a secret from his macho workmates at Sheffield factory Seal Engineering in Ecclesfield until TV crews arrived to film him for a documentary about women who marry transvestites, to be broadcast on Sky One tonight.

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Dean said he had known he was a cross-dresser since he was six, but hid the truth from his family for nearly three decades.

"Being a transvestite is as natural to me as talking and breathing. It is a huge part of who I am," he said.

"It is nice to be somebody else for a change and I get a kick out of it, although there is nothing sexual about it."

Dean's fondness for dressing in women's clothes led to the breakdown of a 12-year relationship with a previous girlfriend before he met his wife Robyn - in the ladies' toilets of a Barnsley club.

"I didn't tell a single person about it until I told my then-partner back in 1993, but I was still suppressing that part of me and for the next six or seven years would dress up only when I was on my own in the house.

"She hadn't seen me in women's clothes until my 27th birthday when I decided that was the point in my life when I had to come out and be Deanne in the open, in safe environments like gay and transvestite nightclubs.

"My girlfriend didn't take it very well at all. Her family thought I was gay and that I wanted a sex change and they gave her a lot of grief, and we eventually broke up.

"But I had been stewing on it for a very long time and it was just something I had to do.

"As soon as I made that decision to go out regularly dressed as Deanne and be who I really am, I couldn't go back - it is like trying to put toothpaste back in the tube once you've squeezed it.

"These days, I walk the walk and talk the talk when it comes to being a transvestite."

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  • Last Updated: 10 January 2008 10:55 AM
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Judy Slippers,

Barnsley 10/01/2008 23:11:59
A little surprised, at first, as i'd overheard someone mention Dean meeting his wife in a toilet. But when I saw it was Dean, I was really pleased for him. Straight away, I was 'bigging him up'. The narrow minded ones, at work, were going to say nasty things about Dean but I came out with: "Hey, I know Dean. He's a really great guy. I've known him for Donkey's years." Actually, I have known him for about 5 or 6 years and was shocked to find out he's not gay. Dean's a really nice lad and totally convincing as Deanne. Infact, the first time I saw him as Dean, I walked straight past him. It's great he met Robyn. I'm proud to know him. My best female friend is married to a cross-dresser too. I've done drag, in the past, but mainly in theatre shows and pantomimes. I couldn't do it on a daily basis, it's not a life style for me. So I say, Good Luck to Dean and well done for being so open about being a T-girl.
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