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Published Date: 08 May 2009
A HEARTBROKEN teenage girl has been banned from a Sheffield school's prom with just four days' notice – after her mum spent £300 on a dress and £150 on a limo.
Chenille Wood, aged 15, was due to step out tonight at Ecclesfield School's event of the year but must now stay at home as a result of her 'bad attitude' in school.

Headteacher Mick Nolan said all his students know attending the end of year prom was a privilege not a right – and Chenille's behaviour last week, including an allegation she swore at a teacher, proved to be the final straw.

Mum Francesca, of Bevan Way, Chapeltown, admitted her daughter was no straight-A student but said to bar her at such short notice was unfair.

"It is nasty and vindictive. Chenille is absolutely heartbroken and has been sobbing her heart out – she'll have no photos of the big night to look back on in years to come, while other pupils who have been involved in far more serious incidents will be there," she said.

"Chenille says she never swore and has witnesses to back her up. It was only when she took in her money to pay for her ticket on Tuesday that she was told she wouldn't be allowed to go to the prom."

Ecclesfield's prom is being held at Newton Hall in Chapeltown and is the fifth time the school has staged such an event, with 250 teenagers expected to attend.

Borrowing a longstanding tradition from American high schools, many Sheffield secondaries now hold proms for final year students who go to the big nights dressed in dinner jackets and ball gowns.

But Mr Nolan said his final year pupils were told repeatedly going to the prom was not a right but a privilege to be earned.

"If their attendance is poor, if they have been excluded or their coursework is late, then they won't be allowed to go," he said.

"Only two students this year, including Chenille, have actually been told they can't attend – there are quite a few others who know the score and haven't even bothered trying to buy tickets.

"Chenille has had a very poor attitude to school staff this year and so she was very much on the borderline. When she was temporarily excluded after swearing and being abusive to a member of staff, it was the straw that broke the camel's back.

"All the students know what the situation is. I understand Chenille hadn't even bought a ticket at that stage – but she knew the consequences of bad behaviour."

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Joe Public77,

Rotherham 08/05/2009 08:40:45
Her witnesses wouldn't happen to be her friends would they ? I am sure this is just one in a series of events. Well done school, its about time todays kids realised that actions have consequences instead of going into a sulk. As for the star reporting this, it wouldn't happen to have been the mother that got in touch was it in a vain attempt to force the school to change their mind ?
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BB Rodriguez,

08/05/2009 09:05:45
Well done to Eccy School for not u-turning on this.

Parents should be teaching their kids to accept the consequences of there actions, not to go bleating to all and sundry when things don't go their way.

I'd like to say I'm surprised at the Star for reporting this non - news, but unfortunately its's par for the course.
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08/05/2009 09:42:09
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08/05/2009 09:47:31
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GJB,

Sheffield 08/05/2009 09:51:18
This article pretty much sums up the state that this country has ended up in. A individual displays behaviour that leads to an institution taking firm action and the local press sides with the 'offender'. I'm sure this local paper would be the first to complain if the school didn't take a harder line...
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puppydog,

08/05/2009 10:11:40
well done nick nolan..the girl new the score but perhaps thought she would get away with it, Her mum should give her a very good "dressing down" over her behaviour,not feel sorry for her !!
and more fool her for spending nearly £450..im sure it could have been better spent on perhaps some anger management counselling
and Joe Public...bet you are right...whats betting that the ones who said she hadnt swore were her friends,so ban them as well for telling lies!!!
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finchley,

sheffield 08/05/2009 10:17:07
there obviously is no financial problems with the credit crunch if the parents think spending 300 quid on a dress for a prom is ok, if she's that bothered about the cost she should have took it back. Her daughter needs to learn some respect and manners for a start.. Good on the school for making a stand.
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08/05/2009 10:42:59
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AnnieO,

08/05/2009 10:50:06
I take it the mother didn't think to PUNISH Chenille for her obvious continued behaviour at school by saying that she would have to pay back the £450 she has wasted, and perhaps also grounding her for a period. But that'd be asking too much from certain people these days isn't it?
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Robin555,

08/05/2009 10:51:19
Big smiles all around - stick to your guns Eccy School!
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